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What if I Cannot Serve My Spouse with Divorce Papers?
Posted on July 10, 2023 in DuPage County Divorce Attorneys
In order to begin the divorce process, you need to serve your spouse with court papers. Some spouses may not want to face the realities of the divorce process, such as child support and alimony. Even when you hire a third party to personally serve your spouse, they may struggle to track down your spouse. A divorce lawyer can help you when you are having difficulty making personal service.
Service Requirements in a Divorce
In order to meet your requirements for personal service in a divorce, you must have a third party, such as a sheriff or private service agency, serve your spouse. You are not allowed to do it on your own, even if the divorce is uncontested (if the divorce is uncontested, you do not have to serve your spouse papers at all). You can meet the requirements by:
Can I Seal the Records of My Divorce?
Posted on June 29, 2023 in DuPage County Divorce Attorneys
Your divorce case will mean that there are court records. Some of these records may contain sensitive and potentially damaging information that you do not want exposed to the general public. It is possible to have your divorce records sealed under certain circumstances. However, there are reasons why a judge may not grant any motion to seal your divorce records or allow certain information to remain public.
The Presumption Is that Documents Are Available to the Public
Under the Illinois Clerk of Courts Act, documents that are required to be kept by the court’s clerk are public records. Public means that anyone can show up at the courthouse and inspect these records. If your divorce is messy, or if there is information that you want kept confidential, anyone can learn about it. The only way that your divorce records can be sealed is when you file a motion with the trial court. The judge must grant the motion to seal the records.
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Can I Go on Vacation with My Kids During a Divorce?
Posted on June 27, 2023 in Divorce
It is essential for you to try to maintain a sense of normalcy during a divorce, especially for the sake of your children. One way to tend to yours and your children’s well-being is to take a vacation during this difficult time. However, you may not be able to simply go away without either consent from the other parent or a court order. Your family law attorney can advise you about what you need to do before you can take the children on a trip.
International Travel Will Usually Be Off Limits
Typically, you would not be able to take the children outside of the country while the divorce is pending. The courts would be afraid that the children may not be brought back. If the children do not have a passport, both parents would need to sign a consent form for the children to apply. It is unlikely that a court would allow you to leave the United States with the children before there is a final order.
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4 Tips for Dealing with a High-Conflict Spouse
Posted on June 23, 2023 in Divorce
High-conflict people seem to enjoy the argument and the fight. They want nothing more than to be in a war with you at all times. Then, they believe that they must win at all costs. They can make both your divorce and the period afterward a nonstop nightmare. An Illinois divorce lawyer may be able to assist in resolving issues related to divorcing a high-conflict ex-spouse
Do Not Give Them the Fight
Once you have entered into a dispute with this type of person, there is usually no way out of it. The conflict will keep spiraling out of control. In many cases, your ex-spouse will not be satisfied until you have a climactic battle in court. You are better off doing the best that you can to not get dragged into the fight in the first place, as difficult as it may seem.
You Do Not Have to Answer Everything
There are times when you may have to answer a communication. For example, you may be co-parenting, and the communication involves the children’s welfare. However, you are not under an obligation to answer every single text or e-mail. There are some communications that are better left unaddressed. Otherwise, you could be thrust into a continuous back-and-forth with your ex-spouse. If you do not share children, there is less of a reason to answer.
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What Is the Tax Treatment of Alimony?
Posted on June 20, 2023 in DuPage County Divorce Attorneys
Whether alimony will impact your tax return depends on when your divorce was finalized. Federal law recently made major changes to the tax treatment of alimony payments after an Illinois divorce. Illinois also made dramatic amendments to alimony law around the same time. Alimony paid pursuant to a recently finalized divorce will not be tax-deductible for the payor, nor will the receiving spouse need to pay income tax on it.
The Tax Cut and Jobs Act of 2017 Changed Tax Treatment
Prior to 2019, the paying spouse was able to take a tax deduction for any alimony paid, enabling them to recoup some of the money that they paid in spousal support. Now, the TCJA made changes to federal law. Now, the receiving spouse does not have to treat alimony as income for income tax purposes. The paying spouse is no longer able to take a tax deduction. Still, a court would consider the spouse’s ability to pay alimony in light of the changes in federal law. If a divorce was finalized before January 1, 2019, alimony is still deductible for the payor and taxable for the recipient.
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How Should I Raise the Subject of a Prenuptial Agreement?
Posted on June 12, 2023 in Prenuptial Agreement in Illinois
More future spouses are turning to prenuptial agreements these days, as people realize the many benefits of this document. You and your future spouse need to start the conversation someplace, and it is not always an easy talk to have. How you raise the topic could influence whether your future spouse is willing to consider it. An Illinois prenuptial agreements lawyer can help you prepare and plan for this discussion and the agreement process.
Explain the Benefits of a Prenuptial Agreement
Human nature is that a person needs to see how something is in their own self-interest. There are obvious reasons why you would want a prenuptial agreement, but you need to explain why the other person should want one too. For example, it can assure the other spouse a certain amount of property in the event of the divorce.
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Can I See My Kids if There Is a Restraining Order Against Me?
Posted on June 06, 2023 in Family Law
In some cases, your ex-spouse may have filed for and received a restraining order against you. The order may require that you remain a certain distance or refrain from contact with your ex-spouse. You may be wondering whether a restraining order will keep you from visitation with your children. A Wheaton child custody attorney can give you advice, which will depend on the specifics of your situation.
The Best Interests of Your Children
If you have been accused of domestic violence, the court may make a separate determination about whether you would pose a danger to your children. Above all, the court wants to provide a safe environment for your children. They will also weigh the importance of your relationship with them when they determine the best interests of the children. The considerations could be different when the court believes that the children may be harmed.
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The Ins and Outs of Alimony
Posted on May 30, 2023 in Alimony/Spousal Support
Divorce is a complicated affair and often involves addressing a range of emotional and financial concerns, including alimony, also known as spousal maintenance or spousal support. Alimony is one of the most contentious issues during divorce since a spouse may be unwilling and unhappy about making payments to their ex-husband or ex-wife. However, there are several situations where alimony is necessary, and divorcing couples need to understand how alimony laws apply to their specific case.
Who Can Recieve Alimony?
Divorcing spouses can negotiate the terms of alimony and reach their own agreement regarding the duration and amount of alimony to be paid. Alternatively, a spouse can petition the court for a sposual maintenance award. If the decision is left up to the court, the court will consider the following factors when deciding whether alimony is appropriate in a divorce case:
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Understanding Paternity Rights in DuPage County: What You Need to Know
Posted on May 24, 2023 in Paternity
According to Illinois law, biological fathers are not automatically considered legal fathers of their children if they are not married or in a civil legal union at the time of the child’s birth. This is the case even if both parents live together or plan to marry. In other words, a father will not have grounds to pursue custody until he establishes paternity.
If you wish to establish paternity in DuPage County, Illinois, here are some ways you can do so:
Acknowledgment of Paternity
If both parents agree on the biological father's identity, they can sign a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity (VAP) form. This can be done right after the birth of a child at the hospital so that the father’s name can be added to the birth certificate after the form is filed through the DHFS.
Besides the hospital, you can also get a VAP form from the Department of Human Services, a County Clerk, or a local child support facility.
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The Role of Business Valuations in High-Asset Divorce Cases
Posted on May 19, 2023 in DuPage County Divorce Attorneys
Couples in a high-asset divorce case have a lot to lose. If they own a business or a stake in a business, they need to hire divorce lawyers who are proficient in business valuations. The process requires an accurate account of the entire marital estate. While assigning values to non-complex assets such as furniture and vehicles is simple, assigning one to complex assets such as business interests requires professional legal aid.
When a Business Is Considered a ‘Marital Asset’
The state of Illinois uses 'equitable distribution' to divide property between spouses during a divorce. This means both parties receive a fair and equitable portion of marital assets. If a business was founded while the couple was married and before they were legally separated or divorced, it is likely considered a marital asset.
However, if either party owned a business before marriage, some of their business assets may also be considered marital property. Additionally, business interests stemming from the non-marital property can be converted into marital property if they are commingled with other family-owned assets. This includes shared accounts which are used to manage business and family finances.
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